In state or out of state, that is the question....

Dilemma, does Kay go out of state to one of the four colleges in the country that specializes in accommodating people with significant disabilities or does she stay local, we work with her existing network of support to put together the services she needs and I am the back up plan?  If she stays local, she would be able to continue to work at her job, participate in the groups that she is involved with, and I can easily monitor things (I know, helicopter mom).  The college would have one on one aides, feeding aides and even a wheelchair report facility.  The closest school is in Pennsylvania.  Guess I need to get out my atlas and see exactly how far away Pennsylvania is!